I love Nephi… 

I know I haven’t posted in ages…. But I figured a good way to get back into that would be by sharing a small “Aha Moment” from my scripture study. 

Can I just say…. I love Nephi, the very first one. All the Nephi’s in the Book of Mormon are wonderful but to me, Lehi’s son is just a little bit more special in my opinion. 

I think what I appreciate most is his straight forwarness, integrity, and perseverance no matter how much was against him. 

I love how “real” he is. He doesn’t fake anything. He’s very transparent. That’s what prompted my “I love Nephi” kick today.  

This verse isn’t super fancy. It’s probably not on too many people’s favorite scriptures lists….and that’s okay! It struck a cord with me though. I love how he says, “I have written these things that perhaps (suggesting a fair amount of hope) I might persuade (not force) them to remember their Lord and Redemmer.”

I find that lovely…. You can’t force anyone to remember Jesus. Jesus himself can’t even force you to do so…. What I’m getting at is I surely appreciate Nephi’s efforts to help people like me remember the goodness of God and the love Christ has for us, and that by choosing light over dark we will have eternal happiness. Simple. Intense. Nephi. 

Experimenting on God….

There is a right time and a wrong time to experiment in the kitchen

We are taught in Alma chapter 32, that we must experiment on the Word of God in order to know that it’s true.  Sometimes, the word of God isn’t quite enough.  Sometimes we need more of a manifestation or “sign” that His word is indeed true when it says He’s there and that He cares.  Sometimes we need more than just a “tender” feeling after reading from a sacred book, or saying a prayer.  Sometimes, we need Him to work a real  modern day miracle for us, so we know beyond a shadow of a doubt that He lives.  Granted, you still have the choice to deny His existence even after He makes it pretty clear He’s there, but that’s not how this story goes….

There was a time, before my mission, when I was challenging God on a pretty regular basis.  I wasn’t rebelling, or going off the deep end.  I was just constantly trying to prove to myself that He either was, or wasn’t there. I was still going to church, I was still reading my scriptures and trying to live a chaste and virtuous life, but I was just… out of touch with God, and I demanded He make himself known to me “Now!!!” or else…. Yeah, I threatened God…. and I didn’t even get struck with “lightning” the way most of us expect to, but I did get “struck” with something.

One day, while driving home from visiting a close family member who was having some serious struggles, my mind started to wander. I was thinking about how I was feeling, and what to do about it, and I was led back to a conversation from many years ago with a friend who had struggled with depression at the time. He was really into the “Emo” thing.  He was a cutter, and I asked him once why he did that, and he told me it was a way to escape the emotional pain he was feeling.  At that time…. I was feeling pretty desperate, and I formulated a little plan to take this words of… “healing” into account, to see if it worked. I knew it was wrong… The minute the idea popped in my head the Spirit was like, “Nope. Not a good idea!” But I didn’t care.  I was determined to escape how I felt, and do so as quickly as possible. I knew what the consequences would be, and that one day I’d have to explain any physical residual evidence to someone someday… but I didn’t care.  I was totally past feeling… Or so I thought.

When I’m alone, I tend to just “talk to God” in a pretty open, candid sort of way.  On this particular day, on this drive home, I told the Lord what my plan was, and that if He was really there, and if He didn’t want me to do it, I wanted Him to send 2 particular people to my apartment, or else I was going to follow my plan to see if it worked… because I was pretty desperate (but I refused to get professional help… classic, I know….).

I’ve come to realize, especially after this “moment” just how much God loves each of us.  I’ve said it so many times before in these posts, but I can say for sure that I know that God loves me…. because He sent those two people I asked for to be there when I got back.  I don’t know how they knew they needed to be there, but at this point, all that matters to me, or that “strikes me” is that they were… that was the miracle.  It’s exactly what I asked God to do to show He truly loved me, that He was truly aware of my situation, and of my desperation.

I can happily, and proudly, tell you I didn’t do anything to myself.  I was really determined though, and that’s how I know, for myself, how much I mean to God.  He could have sent just two other friends, or tried to send some other type of diversion, but He didn’t.  He gave me exaclty what I asked for….

Here’s the take away: My situation, as hard as it was for me personally, isn’t anywhere near the worst situation in the world.  Therefore, if God was willing to listen to a stubborn, desperate brat like me…. make such a “silly” request and demand Him, the Alpha and Omega,to work a miracle…. Why wouldn’t He work one for you? Sure, I guess I was “worthy” of that blessing, but when it comes to God’s love… worthiness is never a factor.  He loves each of us perfectly and completely, 24/7, 365.  My point is, don’t be afraid to ask Him for what you need when you need it, and how you need it.

I testify of the power of prayer.  I testify of faith.  It’s the essential first principle of the Gospel of Jesus Christ for a reason.  If you have nothing else… at least have some faith, no matter how small.  Mustard seeds aren’t that big, people.  Even that small amount can move a mountain… The next time you find yourself facing one of your demons, or find yourself in an impossible situation, or feel like you’re at the end of your rope…. Remember there is a Mighty, All Powerful, All Loving God who’s just waiting for you to ask for His help.  I know God loves me enough that He would have intervened sooner or later, with or without my personal request, but that’s a story for another day.  But what I do love about this “miracle mile” moment, is that He loved me enough to give me exactly what I asked for, exactly when I needed it… And I testify He will do the same for you. Keep that in mind….

Love always,

A Very Grateful and Loved Daughter of God :)

Home, Home On The Range……


Well…. I’m a “citizen” again.  I can back the car by myself, I can text whoever I want whenever I want… I can RIDE HORSES!!!!!!!!! I can jam out to any song… I can even date boys (but that’s just way too much so… not just yet!)… But what I’m most grateful for, having returned from my mission is the opportunity I have to continue to apply all the wonderful lessons and eternal principles I learned on my mission.

My personal favorites are quite simple, but so powerful!

#1- The Principle of Accountability:

No one wins in the blame game, so just be responsible, reliable, and do your best.  If you’ve put your very best effort into whatever the task at hand is, you don’t need to be upset, or mad or blame others for the outcome.

#2- The Principle of Communication:

This one has been addressed previously in my posts, but really and truly… This is so vital.  Communication is the root of the tree of success.  Enough said…. haha

#3- The Principle of OBEDIENCE:

I have learned that obedience is the key to happiness.  If you’re obeying mom and dad, you’re happy.  If you’re obeying the boss, you’re happy. If you’re obeying God, you’re really happy.  It’s just so simple, it’s easy to forget it, but I testify… it’s the hub of the wheel of life, and if you feel like you’re stuck in some aspect on your “mile” you might want to evaluate the three above mentioned principles, but especially consider your obedience.

My mission taught me much more than just these three things, but it’s nearly impossible to put it all into words but I am so grateful I was privileged to go and serve, for all my wonderful companions, my amazing mission president and his wife! Missions are the best…. I still keep waiting to wake up from this “dream” and be back in Florida, but alas…. It hasn’t happened, and that’s ok.  “Real life” is a good place to be.  I’m so grateful to be home again, but a huge part of my heart and life will always be in the Florida Jacksonville Mission.

Oh Florida, Oh Florida…..


Day One- MTC Group


My mission “daughter” :)

18 months, 80 weeks, 547-ish days…  a pretty substantial amount of time I’d say, but the time is’t the important part. This mission has been the most awesome adventure of my life thus far!  Am I sad it’s over? Yes… But did I know that was part of the plan the whole time? Yes. Do I know there is a great life ahead of me after the mission? Oh, yes!!!  But I know my future would never be the same without having had this amazing preparatory, growing, and life changing experience. I will forever be grateful for this time, the ups, the downs, the craziness, the slowness, the good and bad days… and everything in between.  I LOVE BEING A MISSIONARY!


MTC Sisters

I want to bear my testimony of this glorious gospel… It is so true.  Joseph Smith is, and always will be, a prophet of God.  Jesus is the Christ.  His Atonement is real, and so extremely powerful. I am so grateful for it! God is lour loving Heavenly Father, and He knows each and everyone of us so perfectly, it’s astounding.  I know that the Priesthood has been restored, and that through this sacred power families can be united for eternity. I know that the same leadership and organization Christ established during His mortal ministry is once again on the earth.  I know that Thomas S. Monson is the Lord’s true and living prophet on the earth today.  I know the Lord loves us, and desires to bless us.


My “mission foster daughter”, and the miracle of a lifetime :)

I testify that obedience is the key to happiness and satisfaction in this, or any work.  I testify that Preach My Gospel ch. 6 has the best teachings and encouragement in regards to becoming your best self, as well as the Book of Mormon, and the Holy Bible.  I testify that God knows who you need in your life, and when.  I know everyone I have met, no matter how the story has ended, or where the story is currently at has shown up in my life and taught me something I needed to know, and I am so grateful for their help in making my “miracle mile” (especially this small, yet significant portion of it) so spectacular.  1487369_1415857481990087_1308166140_n

Missions are the best… If you’ve ever had that little voice in your head say, “You should go…” Listen to it! The Holy Ghost knows what’s up! This is the hardest thing to do, but it is the best thing to do.  It’ shard in all the right ways, and you will never regret it.

May God continue to bless and keep you all, now and forever!

Love always, Sister Yates

Florida Jacksonville Mission 2013-2015 “WE DO NOT DOUBT”

Alma 18:34- “…I am called by his Holy Spirit to teach these things unto this people, that they may be brought to a knowledge of that which is just and true;”

“I Am Not Dead Yet!”


Another New Year…. Where did the old one go? Where have the last 16 months gone? How did I get old enough to say, “14 years ago…” and actually remember what I’m talking about? Time…. what a doozey!!  In thinking about time and the upcoming year, and reflecting on the experiences I have had this past year, it brought to mind 2 of my favorite songs, and a blurb of testimony.  Here it goes:

As hilarious as the classic movie, “Monty Python and the Holy Grail” is, it was taken a step further with the creation of a musical called, “Spamalot”. One of my favorite songs from that play is “I’m Not Dead Yet”. Today during my personal studies I was thinking about the funny “Missionary-Isms” we come up with.  When you come on your mission, your first area is where you are “Born”, when you train you become a “Mom” or “Dad”, your trainers lineage are your grandparents, your last area is where you “die”, etc.. Slow at first, but eventually faster than you can realize, the time of your mission passes away, and although I may be “terminal” (because I “die” in a few weeks) I am proud to say: “I AM NOT DEAD YET!”

Another song that has been “speaking to me” a lot lately is written by the Nashville Tribute Band called, “Today is the Day” which is a song about not wasting any time and making the most of your day by sharing your testimony and declaring the glad truths that you know with everyone. Sometimes, I’m not going to lie: I don’t always feel brave enough to talk to everyone I see, but each time I hear this song, I get a strong reminder from the Spirit that “I am not dead yet…” but I’m almost there, and therefore need to be making the most of each day I have left and that includes getting over my pride and fear, and talking to everyone I can, to give them the opportunity to hear this great message! It is so great to be a missionary! Everyone should serve… Just sayin’!

This coming year, I’ll spend most of it as a “Member Missionary”, not so much as a “Full Time Missionary” which has brought about some of my New Years resolutions, and a question or two for y’all to ponder:


What are your goals in regard to spreading the gospel this year? 

What are somethings you and your family can do together to help the Lord hasten the work of salvation?

What have you learned this past year that really strengthened your testimony and desire to share the gospel?

I’m not going to bore you with my goals, or drown you in another long analogy of what motivates or helps me understand the gospel. But I will say I am indeed grateful that I am “not yet dead” and that each day, whether I’m in the field our out of the field I can make the most of everyday by sharing my testimony and “shout from the roof tops” that I do in fact know, and believe in Jesus Christ.  He is the ultimate, most precious and wonderful Gift any of us have ever or will ever receive, and I am so thankful He and God appeared to Joseph Smith to restore the precious ordinances and truths of His gospel to the earth, so we could all know the way to return to Them one day.  I know Thomas S. Monson is a prophet of God, and that the other leaders of the church throughout the world are called and inspired of God.  I know God is in the details of the details of the details! of our lives, and that He loves us all so very much.  Never forget that… May the New Year treat you well, and may 2015 be the best year ever as you strive to make each day the the best day ever!

In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

“Good Timber”


The tree that never had to fight

For sun and sky and air and light,

But stood out in the open plain

And always got its share of rain,

Never became a forest king

But lived and died a scrubby thing.


The man who never had to toil

To gain and farm his patch of soil,

Who never had to win his share

Of sun and sky and light and air,

Never became a manly man

But lived and died as he began.


Good timber does not grow with ease:

The stronger wind, the stronger trees;

The further sky, the greater length;

The more the storm, the more the strength,

By sun and cold, by rain and snow,

In trees and men good timbers grow.


Where thickest lies the forest growth,

We find the patriarchs of both.

And they hold counsel with the stars

Whose broken branches show the scars

Of many winds and much of strife.

This is the common law of life.


-Douglas Malloch


The “In-Between’s” of Life


I recently received a cute little poem that explained that throughout life there are a few stages we all go through as we cycle through this journey of life, and the author made a great point when she identified one of these stages as an, “In-Between” stage.  I like that because A- I totally feel that’s where I’m at in the moment, and B- because it’s more positive than saying “The Stagnant Stage” or “The Hopeless Stage”.

So what’s the In-Between stage good for?  I’m still trying to figure that out for myself, but so far I have concluded that God blesses us with these moments of “calm before the storm” so we can take a step back, evaluate ourselves, set some specific goals and plans and move on from there.

My only less than grateful feeling I have with this stage is this: They can last a really long time… Why? Again, I have concluded that it is also a blessing from God so we can practice the attributes found in Preach My Gospel Chapter 6 of Patience and Charity (among others because they are all quite important).

In conclusion, I feel “In-Between’s” are indeed inspired and timely gifts from the Almighty so we can figure how to make the most of our next “In the Flow” stage that is truly right around the corner.  I think if we were in the flow all the time, we would miss so much, and overlook some really great learning and growing opportunities.  “This life is the time for men to prepare to meet God” and if we will take advantage of each moment given, whether it be an in-between, in the flow, in a rut, up a creek, etc. stage I know He will help us get where He needs us to go.  God is so good, and I know He loves and cares for each of us so much, otherwise He would not give us such moments to improve our time in this wild miracle of a mile.

Anyway… a rather random thought for y’all, but in case anyone else out there also feels stuck or in an in-betweener… Just remember, it is all for you hand delivered from the “Author and Finisher of your faith“.

Stay blessed! Love, Sister Yates

A Guest Blog by Elder Lopez

“You mustn’t be afraid to dream a little bigger darling.”

-Tom Hardy (I cannot for the life of me remember his name… Cut me some slack, it’s been a while.)

Hello there beautiful readers! Hmm… Maybe that’s too strong. Hello there wonderful readers, I am the one, the only Elder Lopez! I’d like to think that Lights, Camera, Lopez!‘s popularity has taken me to other venues and that’s why I’m guest posting today! I’d like to say that… But no, I was asked as a favor. But it’d be pretty cool if it was the first one huh?

I’m about to tell you about one of, if not, THE greatest movies that has ever existed in the realm of Cinematography. Oh yeah, I’m talking about Inception. If you haven’t watched it and your’re currently on your mission, resist temptation and wait till your time is done. If however, you’re normal and haven’t watched it, go ahead and change your life. No worries, I can wait… All done? Awesome huh? It’s one of the more confusing movies but it’s perfect in explaining what I’m gonna talk about. It’s called The Plan of Salvation, also known as, The Plan of Happiness. Why is it so happy? I’ll get to that in a second, but first you’re gonna need a bit of a diagram in order to follow what I’m about unfold.

I’m a sucker for drama.

It’s a pretty crazy picture sure, but it’ll all make sense. At least I hope… You can never tell with me… But one of the most obvious things you can tell about the picture is the, well, let’s call them levels. There’s the Pre-mortal life, then Earth Life and the three Kingdoms. There’s also three questions that most people wonder but never have answered. Where do I come from? What is the purpose of life? Where will I go when I die? So as such let’s start with the first one:

Where did I come from? Or, how I learned the importance of Prefixes

See? There’s Jesus being the Awesome!

big brother he is

So in the beginning we all lived with our loving Father in Heaven in what is known as the Pre-mortal existence. Before we came to Earth, we existed as spirits which was I guess cool for the most part, but God wanted much more for us, a chance to become like him, to have a body and to have knowledge, wisdom and all that good stuff. This was a pretty big deal for us and I wish I could remember where it says it, but a certain scripture, summed up, says that we rejoiced when we heard we would receive this opportunity. 

Ahh, you didn’t think I’d remember huh? Well the scripture is found in Job.

When the morning stars sang together, and all the sons of God shouted for joy? 

-Job 38:7

But a chance to return to the presence of our Heavenly Father doesn’t come cheap, we had to earn it but how could we earn it if with Agency, the power to choose for ourselves, would allow us to sin and therefore lose our right to return to the Father’s presence? 

Well, Satan had a plan, it involved us getting our Agency taken away and being forced to do right things or be destroyed… Doesn’t sound great huh? Well that’s where Jesus comes in. His plan was to allow us to make mistakes but through his Atonement, (We’ll get to that in a second) we can repent and have our sins be made clean. So where does Inception come into play on this one? Hold your ponies, I’m getting there.

Not all planning is exciting… Trust me on this one…

So if you remember from the Oscar winning spectacle that is Inception, Dom and his team didn’t immediately just wing that whole operation. No, it took weeks to months (The movie isn’t very clear) to formulate every detail of the plan and it had to be perfect because one small error could spell disaster for the team. Everything from the anesthesia they would use to the plane that Scarecrow (I can’t remember his name in the movie) is going to be flying to his father’s funeral. So in this “Pre-Inception” stage, a plan was given and everyone had their part to play. Ariadne was in charge of creating the mazes and the dreamscape, Tom Hardy (Bane, still can’t remember his name in the movie… OH got it! It’s Eames!) was a forger, the Indian guy made the anesthesia, etc. All nearly perfectly calculated to bring about its purposes.   

Our Purpose on Earth. Or, why stepping on gum isn’t always a bad thing.

Adam and Eve play a major role in all of this. You know the story already so I won’t go into detail, but know that of it weren’t for the fall, than none of us could exist which meant our chances for returning were kaput. So thank your first parents for the incredible sacrifice they made.

So here we are on Earth and that brings us to now. You’re currently reading Sister Yate’s blog and I’m probably falling off a bike. Yet you’re probably wondering, why don’t I remember any of that stuff you said a while back? Well, simply put, it’d be pretty cheap if you did. Think about it. You remember our Heavenly Father and the Plan so you know everything. What was the point in the first place? We call came down to obtain experience and progress. As a scripture, that I actually know, says, 

And we see that death comes upon mankind, yea, the death which has been spoken of by Amulek, which is the temporal death; nevertheless there was a space granted unto man in which he might repent; therefore this life became a probationary state; a time to prepare to meet God; a time to prepare for that endless state which has been spoken of by us, which is after the resurrection of the dead.

-Alma 12:24


There you go, A time to prepare to meet God. So the preparation stage is pretty important huh? It’s also pretty hard to prepare yourself to meet God knowing you mess up every second of everyday. Well, it’s necessary. We are allowed to be tempted so that we can learn to overcome it. If everyday was a sunny day, you wouldn’t appreciate it if there wasn’t a rainy one every so often. There has to be an opposition to all things. Bitter to sweet, rain to sunshine, Lightning Dust to Rainbow Dash. Newton knew what he was talking about when he said that for every reaction, there’s an equal and opposite reaction. So when you find that a bird has lessened its load on you, stop and think, maybe this is a trial, and what do we do with trials? We overcome them!

Some people take trials better than others.

Most people aren’t Leonardo DiCaprio.

Okay so back to the Critics Choice award-winning film that is Inception. So it was a good thing they did all that planning earlier because when Dom and the gang enter the first layer of the dreamscape, it is one mishap after another. One might say it was one trial after the other…But it was in that first layer were the deception that would allow for Inception was to occur. In order for Scarecrow to dissolve his father’s empire, he needed to believe that his godfather was a bad guy which is where the forger Eames comes in. Eames job is to act as the godfather and convince Scarecrow in that first layer that he was a slippery snake, well, it had to be subtle, so that in future layers, Scarecrow’s mind would create the godfather using what Scarecrow thinks of him. It’s really a lot cooler and makes more sense watching it than me trying desperately to remember it… So pretty much, everything relied on what would happen in that very first layer due to kicks and a whole bunch of Nolan jargon that I’m having a hard time remembering. It’s been a little more than a year people. Cut me some slack.

Death, The Spirit World and pretty much, The Afterlife. Or, Are we really just dust in the wind?

So the final question and the one that takes the longest to answer, is where do we go once we die? It’s not a hard question to answer, it just takes some time to explain cause it’s Elder Lopez you’re reading. So the easiest way to explain death is to read this little excerpt I shamelessly copied from Mormon.org!

I don’t know if it will look EXACTLY like that when we die.

The mustache might be a different color.

“Picture your hand inside a glove. The glove moves only when your hand does. Take your hand out and the glove sits lifeless on the table. This is an easy way to visualize what happens when you die. Imagine your body is the glove being operated by who you really are—your spirit. When you die your body gets left behind, lifeless like a glove, but your spirit lives forever.”

So it’s for the most part, accepted by all of us that we are all going to die, it happens and ironically, it’s part of life. You can’t stay still, you gotta Keep moving forward. But it’s okay because death isn’t the end, only the beginning, the beginning of a new life where we enter a state of rest and peace called Paradise.Unlike every other irony involving Paradise, this one is actually quite paradisaical and doesn’t sound like quite a bad place to be in. Okay scratch that, you want to go there, don’t kid yourself. I may not have described it well, but it sufficeth me to say that it seems like the place to be. However, it is only reserved for those who were baptized into The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and remained faithful. We didn’t make this up, that’s just the way it is.

You almost got it Harry. Just a little more!

The alternative is a place called Prison but don’t think of a jail cause I don’t think that’s how it’ll be. I like to think of it like that one scene in part two of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows where Harry is dead and with Dumbledore at a train station and everything’s white. It’s like they’re waiting for a train to come, but they can’t get on just yet, they have to wait. I REALLY wish I could find a picture of this scene cause it is just perfect… But I can’t… So instead, enjoy Harry reaching for his wand. But because God is indeed a loving Heavenly Father, he gives those in prison a chance at redemption. See, it’s not just relaxation all day in Paradise, those in Paradise will preach the gospel to those in prison so they can decide for themselves if they want to accept the gospel. A sort of see a need, fill a need type thing. (Okay, I don’t know what that means but I wanted to use it…)

Seriously, why are not watching this movie?

In the 2011 winner of the Saturn award for Best music, Scarecrow at this point was killed during the dream which means he is now trapped in Limbo. Put your Divine Comedies down, it’s not THAT kind of Limbo. Limbo in this sense is unconstructed, unstable dream space that was created by someone already there, in this case, it’s Dom. So it’s been quite a while since Dom has been there and it has fallen in quite a bit of disarray. According to his works, limbo was created, pretty much like Spirit Paradise/Prison. But much like Prison, he has a chance to make things right and set himself up for success. But much like us when we die, he is the exact same as when he left, personality, knowledge and everything. See, just because you’re dead and the gospel is in your face, doesn’t mean everyone will openly accept it. It’s kind of like the parable of The rich man and Lazarus.

Resurrection, Judgement and The Three Degrees of Glory. Or, Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?

The answer to that is no. But we’ll get there.

So after our brief stay in The Spirit World, it’s time for us to be reunited with our glorious bodies, and yes, they will be glorious. These bodies, unlike our old ones, will be perfect made of flesh and bone, immune to any illness or injury. They may even glow but that one’s more of me than doctrine. Everyone will obtain these bodies due to the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ took upon himself our sins and sacrificed his life for us, but because he overcame death, we will too. The Fall brought physical death and Christ’s Atonement gave us a way to overcome that. It’s a free gift to all of us and one we need to be extremely grateful for.

But once we receive these glorious bodies, our works come into play as we reach Judgment. I for one like to picture a courtroom a la Phoenix Wright, but that’s neither here nor there. Christ will judge us according to

OBJECTION! This probably isn’t how it will


our works done here on Earth. He will be our judge, prosecution and defense attorney. That’s why it kind of helps to have him on our side, which is also why you don’t want to have done something that can condemn you. Which is where Repentance comes in. Thanks to the Atonement, Repentance is possible and all those sins can be forgiven and won’t be used against us. A double jeopardy is you will. You won’t be punished twice for the sins you’ve already committed, which is always nice. This whole thing about our actions determining our faith is found in the Bible.

“Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone.”-James 2:17

But after all is said and done we will all end up in one final resting place. Okay, maybe that’s not the best way to describe it. There are three different glories in the Kingdom of God. One that is comparable to the glory of the stars, one that is comparable to the glory of the moon, and one that is comparable to the glory of the sun. It’s not to say that we will actually live on said celestial bodies, that would just be silly. But each of these kingdoms has a name, the sun is called the Celestial Kingdom, the Moon is called the Terrestrial Kingdom and the stars is known as the Telestial Kingdom. So before you start going crazy and branding me a heretic, let me ask a question. If there were only a heaven and a hell, that to me would sound like a VERY thin line between who’s going where. Imagine a man who spent his WHOLE life devoting himself to God, he’s gonna make it to heaven right? Well, now imagine a man who was so and so but didn’t exactly do much wrong. He just sort of loafed around, squandered his talents and stuff like that. Well, why does he deserve to go to the same place as the other man? I just imagine a conversation like this.

“Okay, you showed good works every so often, oh your church attendance was better than most, could’ve done better on the whole coffee thing. As far as I can see, you ALMOST made it, if you would’ve given that five dollars to that homeless man, you would’ve had enough points to enter. Sorry, Hell’s this way.”

Pictures make EVERYTHING simpler.

See? It’s ridiculous right? Cause Heaven and Hell don’t work on a point system. So back to those kingdoms.

The Celestial Kingdom

So we have the glory of the sun which is known as the Celestial Kingdom, it is in a sense, all that, AND a bag of chips. It is where God the Father and His Son Jesus Christ dwell and where families can in fact be together forever. How great is that? A perfect place where you get to be with the perfect people forever. It sounds paradisaical doesn’t it? I’m sure they will in fact be playing Inception as well as My Little Pony but all that dwarfs compared to the extreme happiness you’ll feel being there. It is where you want to strive to be, but it’s not easy, far from it. This glorious kingdom is reserved for those who were baptized into The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, who participated in a sealing marriage but not only that, that lived worthily throughout their entire lives, using the full effects of Christ’s atoning sacrifice to repent and be made clean. Yeah, it’s a lot to do but man oh man, doesn’t it sound worth it? The answer is yes. But nothing in life is easy or free, which is why we gotta make the most out of it in order to get to this magnificent kingdom.

The Terrestrial Kingdom 

The glory of the moon is what this kingdom is described as. Just like the moon is the brightest thing in the nighttime sky, this kingdom is bright, but is nothing compared to the glory and brightness of the aforementioned kingdom, and no, I don’t mean bright as in ‘go grab your nearest pair of Oakley sunglasses’ bright… It is a kingdom reserved for honorable people who were unfortunately “blinded by the craftiness of man. They’ll be able to enjoy the presence of the Son, but not of the Father, and even then, that presence will be temporary, kind of like when a friend sleeps over. However, it’s not to say that all members of the LDS church will inherit Celestial glory. Those who accepted the gospel but did not continue to live it’s doctrine will dwell here, as well as those who those who rejected the opportunity to receive the gospel in mortality but who later received it in the postmortal spirit world. See, God is a God of mercy. Many religions state that those who aren’t of their faith will burn in hell which is kind of harsh cause there are good people in all religions and they will still inherit the kingdom of God, it just won’t be the full glory. 

The Telestial Kingdom

The final kingdom, with its glory compared to the brightness of the stars is known as the Telestial Kingdom. Just like the stars in the nighttime velveteen sky twinkle faintly, this kingdom too is rather lackluster compared to the other celestial bodies. It’s a place where those who denied the gospel of Jesus Christ in its fullness will dwell. 2 Timothy 3: 2-4 has an accurate description of those who will dwell here.

For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters,proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,

Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers,incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,

Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;
-2 Timothy 3: 2-4

It’s not exactly what you would call, the best place to live in but it’s not all bad. I’m sure there’s free cable. I kid, but in all seriousness, it is said to be a million times better than the world we live in, a true paradise where we will be happy. It’s not to say that you should shoot low though. However, one of the most important things to remember about these three kingdoms is that no matter where we end up, we will feel comfortable where we are. We won’t be ashamed or feel like we deserve better. It will be made for us. 

So Where Does That Put Us?: Or, Do You Understand The Words That Are Coming Out Of My Mouth?!

You weren’t paying attention were you…?

Simply put, God loves us and has made all of this possible through the infinite Atonement of His son, Jesus Christ. We all have a plan and a potential to achieve beyond our understanding of greatness, but it also means that we have to be worthy of achieving that greatness which is why our decisions here on Earth are so important. In order to make it to our Heavenly Father, you have to do your part in living by the full Gospel of Jesus Christ. What is that? Well, that’s a lesson for another day.

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The thought of my Day…


As we were driving to district meeting today, a thought occurred to me that I hadn’t consciously acknowledged before:

I keep blaming Satan for all my problems.  This is not cool (or practical) for 2 reasons.

#1- It gives that creep way too much oxygen (too much attention).

#2- It’s my job to be accountable for how I feel, how I behave, and how I respond to things.

Call me selfish, but I want to be my own master.  This leads to the second “previously un-thought of” thought of my day: I am legitimately my own worst enemy.  It is the hardest thing ever to conquer yourself and since the natural man (which, our nature is the one thing we all come into this world with that is distinctly ours, which is our “natural nature” if you will) is an enemy to God…. We are so toast (or at least, at this point in my life I certainly am) if we don’t figure out how over come ourselves.

So how do we defeat ourselves? What does it take? Why do we even need to? What’s wrong with “being me“?

I hope my testimony and answer will help answer those questions.

The prophets and apostles repeatedly tell us, that if we do not master goal setting and planning, we will essentially be miserable.  How true! How bad does it feel sometimes, to see really great friends and coworkers and others around us reach all the goals, and “live the life” we’ve always dreamed of having for ourselves? Why does that always seem just beyond our grasp? Or even if we are mature enough not to compare ourselves, it still feels pretty bad to see where you are, and the wide chasm of where you’d actually like to be, or even feel you need to be.

Long story short, I firmly believe the leaders of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints know what they are talking about, and since goal setting and planning are the solid building blocks they have presented to us to achieve all of our worthy goals, I testify that righteous, realistic goals preceded by exact obedience, specific and careful plans, and a lot of humility will help you achieve all that you desire, but even more importantly all the God desires for you.  It is by following the principles in Preach My gospel chapter 8 that we can become our best.  It is by following the principles of obedience, goal setting, planning and accountability that we will overcome our natural man, and become a true friend and partner with our Heavenly Father, to magnify all of our personal callings and hep the Lord accomplish His work, in any phase of our life. Isn’t that the ultimate goal, anyway?  Let us all be accountable.  Figure out what the Lord feels is best for you, and then study PMG ch 8, and go forth and conquer.  In the name of Jesus Christ, amen!


Missionary Yoga: The “Revelatory” Pose

Step 1- Begin by standing with feet shoulder width apart.

Step 2- Lower your body into the marriage proposal position, then
bring other leg into same position as the knee already on the ground.

Step 3- Sink buttocks to rest squarely on the heels of your feet. This
may cause discomfort due to tightness and soreness in the quadriceps from biking or walking a lot during the day. Exhale slowly to relieve tension, and remember to be grateful that you have legs!
**Bonus step> to intensify this pose don’t sink all the way to your
heels; stay on your knees the whole time.

***Extra Bonus: Have a pen & pencil nearby to record immediately received and recognized inspiration. Hold the pose as long as needed. Don’t forget to breathe and relax, which increases the flow of revelation.

Step 4- Clasp hands together and rest in lap,  fold arms “crisscross-Apple sauce” across your chest, or place hands together like a steeple…. Which ever is most comfortable for you.

Step 5- While holding the position, address Heavenly Father, and pour out your heart and ask specifically for guidance and revelation. Close in the name of Jesus Christ.

Step 6- Hold the pose until guidance, or peace (or lack of consciousness come from lack of circulation) comes. Then offer thanks for the answers (or that you didn’t totally pass out), and get on with your day. :)

Repeat at least twice daily, and as often as needed throughout the day.